The Pampered Housewife Blog

I've been with my darling for 1,017 days now, (or about 2 years and 9 months). People say that the honeymoon phase lasts three months or even up to a year. And be that as it may, I am every bit as madly in love with him as I was in the first few weeks of our relationship. That's not to say that we haven't had our ups and downs. Just like any couple, we have had large disagreements. But our love for one another dwarfs those disagreements like the entire milky way dwarfs Pluto.

As it is only just a few short hours until the new year, I have written out a list of new year's resolutions and how I plan to commit to them. 1) Work out consistently All people should work out consistently, as this is just healthy for our body, but specifically as a 2027 Bride, it's very important to work out so that I can look and FEEL good on my wedding day! I will be achieving this by working out at minimum half an hour, 5-6x a week! 2) Improve my skin care routine I ord

Merry Christmas to everyone who celebrates! This Christmas was an absolutely magical experience for Ayden and I. This is our 3rd Christmas together as a couple, we started off Christmas at midnight by wishing each other a Merry Christmas, and then saying happy birthday to our beloved King Jesus Christ. Ayden prayed to Him and asked Him to always protect me. After that, we went to be and the next morning I woke up and started Christmas morning off with some delicious Christmas

There's a lot of discussion online about what a masculine man is, and what he does. I don't like to talk about politics much on my blog, but this has been on my mind a lot recently. At the end of the day, having old-fashioned gender roles in your relationship or your marriage is a matter of choice. Being feminine or masculine is a matter of choice. I've seen some people online that think that women who love being taken care of by their male partner are promoting misogyny but

Today my fiancé and I are celebrating 1000 days together. 1000 days. 33 months. 142 weeks. 24,000 hours. 2 anniversaries. 2 Valentine's days. 3 Christmases. 2 New years. 2 of Ayden's birthdays 3 of my birthdays. 4 vacations. 1 promise ring. 1 engagement ring. Countless conversations. Countless gifts. Countless flowers. Countless "I love you"s. And counting!

The past few days have been amazing! On the 2nd of December, I went to see Jujutsu Kaisen: Execution, and I didn't even know that it would play in my country. On 5th of December I went to see Zootopia 2 with my mother. Jujutsu Kaisen: Execution was a masterpiece The animation was absolutely amazing, and the cliffhanger was insane! It was also riveting to see all of our favorite characters, Yuji, Choso, Todo, and Yuta on the big screen! I loved seeing the fight between Yuji an

What is the red pill? The red pill is an online subculture that emphasizes male superiority, female inferiority, misogyny, and anti-women's rights sentiments. The name 'red pill' comes from the 1999 film 'The matrix' where the red pill represents the harsh reality, and the blue pill represents a comfortable illusion. There have been several figures in the online red pill movement, such as Myron Gaines of Fresh and fit, and disgraced former YouTuber Sneako. The red pillers mig

I just love cozy and kawaii gaming. There is nothing better than spending an evening on your Nintendo switch, playing a relaxing game while listening to some gentle music. Here are the top three games I love playing: 1) Animal Crossing: New Horizons No cozy gaming list would be complete without mentioning at least one Animal Crossing game. This game is fun, easy, and you have so many customizable options. A fan favorite for sure! 2) Hello Kitty Island Adventure As I said in o

I had an aromatherapy massage at the Uzuri spa during my vacation at PrideInn Flamingo, which I talked about here . When I first entered the room, I noticed a lovely eucalyptus aroma and soft music playing. I was then asked by the masseuse to change into a fresh bathrobe. I then was instructed to lie belly down on the massage bed which was decorated with frangipani flowers. The masseuse then begun to apply the oils on my back, and it was absolutely heavenly! The entire massag

There is so much negativity surrounding being a woman. Every time I mention that I love being a woman, people of both genders inundate me with reasons I shouldn't. And while I do not want to take away the experiences of other women, I feel it much better to focus on all the beauty of being a woman while trying to fix problems like misogyny and violence against women rather than telling women they just hate the fact they are women. Women are soft, beautiful, peaceful, and tend

Halloween is one of my favorite holidays of the year! I just love the spooky vibes of Halloween and the warm coziness of autumn! I also love the snacks we get to eat! I bought these snacks the day before so today I got to eat some cookies, pringles and Nutella. For lunch, I had chicken and chips while watching Shera: Princess of power (been loving that show recently) Then I took a nap, woke up, did my yoga session, and talked with my friends. I had some warm tea and a cream c

It is now the fourth morning of my vacation, and so far it's been absolutely amazing! A huge thanks to my extremely wonderful and loving fiancé, Ayden, for organizing this for us. There was a slight hiccup at the beginning, where PrideInn Flamingo had accidentally overbooked, and we had to spend one day at their sister hotel, PrideInn Paradise. It was a wonderful experience, even though it was unexpected! It is a large sprawling resort, and we took lunch and dinner at this ma

My most wonderful and amazing darling booked us a two-week, all inclusive vacation at PrideInn Flamingo , I visited this hotel during our last vacation in March this year, where we celebrated our 2nd anniversary. We went to the Istanbul Cave Restaurant , After going there for dinner, I was impressed with how gorgeous the lobby was, how huge the pools were, and how close it was to the beach. I've always loved the beach and swimming in the ocean. I love the feel of the waves o

Morning (9am - 12pm) On most days, I sleep in until whatever time I feel comfortable. On most days, I wake up between 9am and 9:30am. However, if I'm feeling ill or I'm in the menstrual phase of my cycle, I will sleep in until 11am. Then I wake up, have a warm cup of milk tea, brush my teeth and hair, do my skincare routine, shower and make my bed. I will also do my prep for lunch or marinate the meat or chicken if it's required for the recipe that day. This is one of my favo

Slow homemaking is something I love to incorporate into my life as a pampered and peaceful stay at home fiancée. Slow homemaking is intentional homemaking purposefully done at a slower pace in order to maximize enjoyment over speed and efficiency. Whenever I used to make my bed, I always tried to do it as fast as possible, so that I could get to doing other things. But one day, I was feeling a little tired, and I decided to do it slower, and I found I actually enjoyed it so m

As a young woman, it is so important for me to work on feeling more feminine, embodying a peaceful and calm posture which makes me more relaxed and joyful, so here's a few small things I do to make me feel more feminine. Use perfume I in particular love using Miss Dior, I love the design of the bottle and the bow it comes with. Using this just makes me feel so good and it smells exquisite too! Using a pink silk eye mask to sleep I use this beautiful pink silk eye mask (pictur

Many people today view being a traditional homemaker as oppression, to the point that many institutes such as the European Institute for Gender Equality (EIGE) and the United Nations penalize the gender equality index score of countries where women are more likely to be full-time homemakers! So that means that a woman like me, by virtue of me choosing to be a homemaker, is making my country look more sexist! Now, I understand fully in some countries, women are forced into not

I've been a stay-at-home fiancée for nearly one and a half years now, and it's, so far, been the most fun years of my life! Please note that this is not meant to put down women who choose to work outside the home, I do support that! So here's just a few of the reasons I love being a housewife. Supporting my darling As a homemaker, my biggest honor and privilege is to lovingly serve my fiancé. Because I don't work outside the home, I can fully step into my role as a partner an